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A relationship that will sustain us in the long haul should leave us feeling strong and vibrant, not insecure and exhausted. By choosing to surround ourselves with people who feed our life force, we increase our chances of long-term fulfillment.
Cross0v3r: Will dating this person bring me long term fulfillment or will it bring me short term gratification?"
Many of us fall prey to going out with people who only fulfill a need in the moment. In order to experience long-term fulfillment, we must create and stand in our vision for the future. Only when we have a clear vision of what we are looking for in a partner can we evaluate whether the person we just met is consistent with that vision.
Right questions such as these will challenge you to look deeply, to clarify and declare what is truly important to you, and to make choices each day that bring you closer to what you want. By asking them and listening to the answers you receive, you can be sure that the next "book" you pick up is one that you'll want to read over and over again.
azngenie1: hahaha
azngenie1: hello andrew
Cross0v3r: Many people who are in the market for a long-term relationship are unknowingly shopping for a great package. Almost reflexively, we judge people on the basis of their looks, their financial status or their accomplishments. But as we all know, dating someone who is beautiful but unemployed, or smart but not ambitious, or successful but a workaholic, does not fulfill our romantic desires. By asking a few of the Right Questions, we can broaden our horizons and open ourselves up to meeting people who nourish us, inspire us and share our vision for the future
azngenie1: so wussup
Cross0v3r: nothing
azngenie1: thank you for those thought ful questions
Cross0v3r: use it
azngenie1: so what going down tommorw sunshine?
Cross0v3r: anyway
azngenie1: well
azngenie1: you've asked yourself those questions right??
azngenie1: soooo
azngenie1: tell me some answers
azngenie1: =]
Cross0v3r: no i havn't
Cross0v3r: but i think that if you read them
Cross0v3r: especially the first one
Cross0v3r: you'll know i'm not right fo ryou
Cross0v3r: ur always exhausted
Cross0v3r: i'm just thinking and looking out for you
Cross0v3r: and i do know what is good fo ryouy
azngenie1: no
Cross0v3r: people who listen to their emotions
Cross0v3r: that let it run wild
Cross0v3r: they're blind
azngenie1: i don't need you to look out for me
Cross0v3r: they'll do many things that hurt them
azngenie1: I can look out for myself
Cross0v3r: when people do drugs
Cross0v3r: they think
azngenie1: and if i hurt myself
Cross0v3r: its okay
Cross0v3r: we all know its not
azngenie1: that will be my problem
Cross0v3r: they dont' see what we see
Cross0v3r: well ur hurting right now
azngenie1: haha this is not like a drug
azngenie1: problem
azngenie1: no im happy right now
azngenie1: i just worked out
azngenie1: I did your three miles
azngenie1: are you proud? ^-^
Cross0v3r: my?
Cross0v3r: ur doing it for yourself
Cross0v3r: not me
Cross0v3r: do it for yourself
azngenie1: andrew, im not blind
azngenie1: i know whats bad for me and whats good for me
azngenie1: and what makes me sad and what makes me happy
azngenie1: i know all that
azngenie1: so stop thinking for me
azngenie1: if you don't feel this relationship is right, thats okay, but please please please don't say that your being distant for me
azngenie1: or that your breaking up with me to because you want whats best for me
azngenie1: don't do it for me
azngenie1: if you want to do it, do it for yourself, ya kno?
azngenie1: anyways
Cross0v3r: likewise
azngenie1: =] okie no worries
azngenie1: if i break up with you it will be for me
azngenie1: anyways
azngenie1: what time should i get you tommrow?
azngenie1: and are you sure my cousine and I cna't go to the game? if you don't want me to go its okay
azngenie1: but i think he does kinda wanna go
azngenie1: thats if its okay with you of course
azngenie1: he'll pay for the ticket
Cross0v3r: i leave at 4
azngenie1: mm i can pick him up earlier
azngenie1: are u still going?
Cross0v3r: i'll be out of fremont by 4
azngenie1: well first tell me if its okay that he goes
azngenie1: and then i will ask parents and stuff
azngenie1: so you say yes or no first
azngenie1: and then i will work out the other stuff
Cross0v3r: your parents won't say yes
Cross0v3r: anyway
Cross0v3r: you'll be home after 12
Cross0v3r: i dont' think so
Cross0v3r: drop it
azngenie1: dude don't worry about my parents
azngenie1: i mean
azngenie1: is it okay with you
azngenie1: YOU
azngenie1: not my parents, YOU
azngenie1: if its okay with you I will work it into them
Cross0v3r: i need to find someone to sell these too
Cross0v3r: to*
Cross0v3r: so
azngenie1: alrighty then
azngenie1: i won't ask anymore =P
Cross0v3r: okay cool
azngenie1: mmmm but tommorw, can i see you?
Cross0v3r: waste i tell you
Cross0v3r: NO
azngenie1: why no?
azngenie1: just explain please =]
Cross0v3r: if you drive 17 you can
azngenie1: fine
Cross0v3r: by yourself
Cross0v3r: but
azngenie1: i will
Cross0v3r: its a 10 percent chance you'll live through it
Cross0v3r: you're going to crash
azngenie1: thanks for teh positive thinking!
Cross0v3r: okay
Cross0v3r: then dont' come
azngenie1: hahahaha andrew and his disregard for my life
azngenie1: i will come
Cross0v3r: how bout not
azngenie1: don't worry your pretty little head about it
Cross0v3r: im serious
Cross0v3r: don't
Cross0v3r: ur going to die
azngenie1: i want to see you though
Cross0v3r: well too bad
Cross0v3r: i'm in a bad mood
Cross0v3r: i threw 100 bux away
azngenie1: alrighty lemme ask around okay?
Cross0v3r: no
Cross0v3r: stop it
Cross0v3r: stop it
azngenie1: maybe some of my friends will want to go
Cross0v3r: stop it
Cross0v3r: gosh
azngenie1: im just trying to help
Cross0v3r: ur help sux
azngenie1: alrighty meanie
azngenie1: andrew imma come tommorw
azngenie1: just i dunno pray that I dont die okay? =]
azngenie1: i should be there by 1
Cross0v3r: don't be foolish
Cross0v3r: you never drove 17
Cross0v3r: before
Cross0v3r: although i think its easy
azngenie1: but i want to see you
Cross0v3r: for first timers
Cross0v3r: you won't see me if you die
azngenie1: so why dont you just let me pick you up down town?
Cross0v3r: forget that
Cross0v3r: THERE IS NO WAY I WILL LET YOU DO TAHT
Cross0v3r: FORGET DOWNTON
Cross0v3r: THAT IS OUT OF THE QUESTION FOR THE LAST TIME
azngenie1: expalin
azngenie1: u didn't explaine
Cross0v3r: there is none
Cross0v3r: i'm don't want to see you
Cross0v3r: drop it
azngenie1: okie fine
Cross0v3r: cuz i said so
azngenie1: okay andrew
azngenie1: i won't see you tommorw okay?
Cross0v3r: good stuff
Cross0v3r: there is this piano piece i'm trying to play
Cross0v3r: its really hard
Cross0v3r: and i don't think i'll ever really master it
azngenie1: ic, take it slow
Cross0v3r: well it will take me a llong time
Cross0v3r: but going slow
azngenie1: and relax it will be easier to master
Cross0v3r: sux
Cross0v3r: i am impatient
Cross0v3r: do you know what song i'm trying to play?
azngenie1: i kno but sometimes ya have to take it slow first inorder to get it
azngenie1: what song?
Cross0v3r: ur good at piano right?
azngenie1: im okay
Cross0v3r: you could prolly play it in a day?
azngenie1: not good
Cross0v3r: ur bro is good yes?
Cross0v3r: anyway this song is too tough for me
Cross0v3r: i think i'm going to give up...
Cross0v3r: half way
Cross0v3r: no cigar
azngenie1: what its called?
azngenie1: don't give up dude, =] you can play it
azngenie1: just take it slow
azngenie1: one note at a time
Cross0v3r wants to send file moonlight3.mid.
azngenie1 received D:\Documents and Settings\Jean1\My Documents\download\azngenie1\moonlight3.m
azngenie1: moonlight sonata?
Cross0v3r: no
Cross0v3r: thats easy
azngenie1: hahaha dang this is crazy
azngenie1: how far have you gotten?
Cross0v3r: =X
azngenie1: dude i think this would take me like... 2 months
Cross0v3r: go to
azngenie1: or longer
azngenie1: like... 2 months if i played everday
Cross0v3r: 3:20
azngenie1: for like....
Cross0v3r: go to 3:20
azngenie1: okay
azngenie1: ur at 3:20?
Cross0v3r: Beethoven - III Movement - Sonata C# Minor
Cross0v3r: 19 pages
azngenie1: fun.......
Cross0v3r: the only way to learn it is really memorize it
azngenie1: mhm... im not that good
azngenie1: im not at your level andrew
Cross0v3r: 4-5 months my friend
Cross0v3r: with a lot of practice
Cross0v3r: hours stacked on hours a day
azngenie1: icic
azngenie1: andrew are you feeling any better?
Cross0v3r: yes
azngenie1: =]
azngenie1: good to hear
Cross0v3r: music alwasy makes me happy
azngenie1: andrew sorry to ask this =X buuut am i going to see you at all this weekend?
Cross0v3r: no
Cross0v3r: tomorrow is ur only chance
Cross0v3r: but thats been taken away now
azngenie1: why?
Cross0v3r: its a great piece
Cross0v3r: its soo great
azngenie1: you know what buddie.... truthfully... i think it sucks that I have to beg to see you...
Cross0v3r: then stop
azngenie1: okay.. but first explain why youre being like this
Cross0v3r: its a nice piece
azngenie1: alrighty
azngenie1: well you enjoy your music
azngenie1: ^-^
Cross0v3r: don't give me that
Cross0v3r: i dare you to play it
Cross0v3r: thats my challenge to you
azngenie1: why should i take your challenge?
Cross0v3r: i dare you to beat me
azngenie1: i don't care if you dare me
azngenie1: your dare doesn't mean anything to me
Cross0v3r: okay
Cross0v3r: you're mean
Cross0v3r: bye
azngenie1: anyways i won't bother you anymore
azngenie1: good bye andrew
azngenie1: ahve a good nights rest
Cross0v3r: don't talk to me
Cross0v3r: for the rest of the month
azngenie1: okay i wont
Cross0v3r: or two
Cross0v3r: summer
Cross0v3r: don't talk to me
Cross0v3r: im serious....
Auto response from azngenie1: not here... reading call me if you want to talk
Cross0v3r: if you're not okay with it...speak now..cuz i'm leaving
azngenie1: im not
azngenie1: im not okay with it
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Treated like shit, every other day.... yet I put up with it, he's wrong for treating me like shit, and I'm wrong for putting up with it. I can't handle anymore.... no more being tested please...
